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Why Your Meetings Stink—and What to Do About It #1140

Open anitsh opened 7 months ago

anitsh commented 7 months ago

Leaders consistently rate their own meetings very favorably, and much more positively than attendees do.

Be a leader who valued reflection, learning, flexibility, taking reasonable risks, not being complacent, and trying new things, and the team rewards with proactive problem-solving.

Leading meetings might seem like a small part of a manager’s job. But positive change in this one arena can lead to real gains for companies and their employees. If your organization isn’t training you in this key skill, it’s time for you to develop it on your own using these strategies.

How to assess and improve meeting skills? Did the attendees engaged in critical thinking?

Has the meeting failed? Have a “premortem” (also known as prospective hindsight), which involves imagining that the meeting has failed and working backward to ascertain why. Then plan the meeting in a way that avoids or mitigates those problems.

Have a “premortem” (also known as prospective hindsight), which involves imagining that the meeting has failed and working backward to ascertain why. Then plan the meeting in a way that avoids or mitigates those problems.

Managers must learn to diagnose their meeting problems, better prepare for and facilitate the gatherings they lead, and seek feedback to further hone their skills.

When managers assume that their meetings are going well, they are less apt to solicit feedback and seek opportunities to improve. As a result, frustrations that attendees commonly cite (such as irrelevant agenda items, overly long duration, lack of focus) persist, leaving people disgruntled and disengaged.

Meetings must help establish and promote consensus. Thus, serving as a focal point for collective drive and energy.

Eliminate the ineffective or unnecessary ones and improve the quality of those that remain.

Assess, Prepare, Facilitate, Reassess

Think about attendee behavior, conversational dynamics, and the content that was covered.

Ask yourself:

Scan people who attend your meetings.

Emphasize feedback. A three-question online survey to ask

Once you’ve reflected on your own and solicited feedback from others, identify your key strengths and weaknesses and create a plan for improvement.

It’s easy to

Make modest upfront investment

If you don’t have a clear mission or a list of agenda items, you should probably cancel.

Why you’re meeting? Who needs to be there to help you?

Think carefully about key decision makers, influencers, and stakeholders.

Outside circle feel included. Asking for their input before the meeting and promising to share it and keep them in the loop.

Consider a timed agenda in which attendees join only the portions of the meeting pertinent to them.

Too many attendees can lead to a cacophony of voices or social loafing (whereby individuals scale back their efforts under the protection of a “crowd”), not to mention logistical challenges.

Focus on time and place. It’s human nature to stick to the same room, same hour, and same general setup. But those routines can cause people to glaze over. Instead, find ways to introduce variety: Move to a different venue, meet in the morning instead of the afternoon, experiment with nontraditional time blocks (such as 50 minutes instead of an hour), or change the seating arrangements so that everyone is next to and across from different colleagues. For groups of two to four people, you might suggest a walking meeting. For larger groups, try standing, which has been shown to boost meeting efficiency and attendee satisfaction provided the sessions are kept short (15 minutes or so) to prevent discomfort.

Preparation should go even further for high-stakes meetings.

Held too many recurring weekly meetings that happened whether he had a compelling agenda or not? Are we doing it out of habit rather than necessity? Create something he called “magic time” — a slot that everyone on the team agreed to keep empty for either heads-down work or an impromptu meeting should an urgent issue surface. This significantly reduced the quantity of meetings, while also improving the quality of those that were held.

Improve quality. Reduce quantity.

Improving meeting facilitation: Tactics to help people feel welcome and primed to tackle the task at hand

People often experience meetings as interruptions, taking them away from their “real work”.

Promote a sense of presence among attendees

Start with a purposeful opening statement explaining why everyone is gathered. Recognize group or individual accomplishments Remind attendees of “meeting values” - previously agreed-upon rules of engagement, such as keeping comments succinct.

Leaders at times will need to offer their own opinions and directives to move the discussion forward, but the key to successful facilitation is understanding that you’re primarily playing a supportive role.

As the conversation gets started, try to adopt a stewardship mindset, asking questions, engaging others, modeling active listening, drawing out concerns, and managing conflicts.

Ensures there is genuine give-and-take, attendees feel safe speaking up, and they leave feeling committed to the outcomes.

Some techniques for getting attendees to actively participate:

Two facilitation issues to address:

Address the participation problem

Even when managers proactively diagnose their meeting problems and learn to better prepare for and facilitate the gatherings they lead, there will undoubtedly be room for improvement.

After a few months of experimenting with the tactics, ask team for another assessment.

https://hbr.org/2019/01/why-your-meetings-stink-and-what-to-do-about-it