Meson support

[WillAyd]

Not sure if there is a desire for supporting another build backend, but figured I would share in case.

Meson seems a bit simpler than the existing CMake configuration, and has the advantage of:

1. Installing dependencies via the wrap database easily
2. Potentially making nanoarrow installable via the WrapDB

Point 2 is not covered here, but might be a nice future enhancement for downstream Python libraries like NumPy and pandas that use Meson as their build systems

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[WillAyd]

Sounds good - I just copied over the minimal example and switched it to Meson. It is still a little different from what end users would do long term (i.e. would be nice to have nanoarrow in the WrapDB) but I think the gist of it is there

[WillAyd]

Yea happy to do so

[WillAyd]

I believe I addressed all feedback but let me know if anything is outstanding