fix: use PROVISIONING_PROFILE_SPECIFIER for manual codesigning

[erisu]

Platforms affected

ios

Motivation and Context

resolves #823 resolves #536

Description

cherry-picked changes from https://github.com/apache/cordova-ios/pull/823 and rebase with lastest main branch

Testing

n/a

Checklist

• [ ] I've run the tests to see all new and existing tests pass
• [ ] I added automated test coverage as appropriate for this change
• [ ] Commit is prefixed with (platform) if this change only applies to one platform (e.g. (android))
• [ ] If this Pull Request resolves an issue, I linked to the issue in the text above (and used the correct keyword to close issues using keywords)
• [ ] I've updated the documentation if necessary

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Codecov Report

Attention: Patch coverage is 0% with 2 lines in your changes are missing coverage. Please review.

Project coverage is 78.24%. Comparing base (b400b70) to head (51abad8).

Files	Patch %	Lines
lib/build.js	0.00%	2 Missing :warning:

Additional details and impacted files

```diff @@ Coverage Diff @@ ## master #1405 +/- ## ======================================= Coverage 78.24% 78.24% ======================================= Files 15 15 Lines 1788 1788 ======================================= Hits 1399 1399 Misses 389 389 ```

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