Add session config to specify default sort key options(Nulls First or Nulls Last)

[mingmwang]

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[mingmwang]

PG's default behavior is not the same with SparkSQL. Datafusion's implement is not consistent either, in some places it aligns with PG and some other places it try to align with SparkSQL's