[feture](exchange) refine SenderQueue and add enable_exchange_pass_through

[Mryange]

Proposed changes

1. remove non pipeline code
2. use pass through in SenderQueue add block

mysql [test10]>set ENABLE_EXCHANGE_PASS_THROUGH = true;
Query OK, 0 rows affected (0.00 sec)

mysql [test10]>SELECT count() FROM strings WHERE long IN (SELECT long FROM strings);
+----------+
| count(*) |
+----------+
| 10000000 |
+----------+
1 row in set (27.87 sec)

mysql [test10]>set ENABLE_EXCHANGE_PASS_THROUGH = false;
Query OK, 0 rows affected (0.00 sec)

mysql [test10]>SELECT count() FROM strings WHERE long IN (SELECT long FROM strings);
+----------+
| count(*) |
+----------+
| 10000000 |
+----------+
1 row in set (33.11 sec)

[Mryange]

run buildall

[github-actions[bot]]

clang-tidy review says "All clean, LGTM! :+1:"

[Mryange]

run buildall

[github-actions[bot]]

clang-tidy review says "All clean, LGTM! :+1:"

[github-actions[bot]]

clang-tidy review says "All clean, LGTM! :+1:"

[Mryange]

run buildall