[fix](docker case) Fix `test_sql_mode_node_mgr` and add cloud multi f…

[deardeng]

…ollower fuzzy test

What problem does this PR solve?

1. fix start docker cluster slow
2. Fix the test_sql_mode_node_mgr case that fails to meet testing objectives, as the container exits after dropping the follower.
3. Add fuzzy add/drop follower/observer cases on the cloud.

Issue Number: close #xxx

Related PR: #xxx

Problem Summary:

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• Test

  • [x] Regression test
  • [ ] Unit Test
  • [ ] Manual test (add detailed scripts or steps below)
  • [ ] No need to test or manual test. Explain why:
    • [ ] This is a refactor/code format and no logic has been changed.
    • [ ] Previous test can cover this change.
    • [ ] No code files have been changed.
    • [ ] Other reason

• Behavior changed:

  • [x] No.
  • [ ] Yes.

• Does this need documentation?

  • [x] No.
  • [ ] Yes.

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• [ ] Confirm the release note
• [ ] Confirm test cases
• [ ] Confirm document
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