fix cancelled task still executed

[sjgllgh]

What is the purpose of the change

Fix the bug where cancelled tasks continue to execute.

Related issues/PRs

Related issues: #5073

Brief change log

• 修改QueryPersistenceManager.updateJobStatus，如果状态更新失败则主动抛出异常。[Modify the QueryPersistenceManager.updateJobStatus method so that if the status update fails, it actively throws an exception.]

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