[Feature][Core] Add event notify for all connector

[zhangshenghang]

Purpose of this pull request

• resolve #7485

@Hisoka-X

1. Source-related Classes

Class Name	Method	Introduced Event
SourceFlowLifeCycle	open	ReaderOpenEvent
SourceFlowLifeCycle	close	ReaderCloseEvent
ParallelSource	open	ReaderOpenEvent
ParallelSource	close	ReaderCloseEvent
CoordinatedSource	open	ReaderOpenEvent
CoordinatedSource	close	ReaderCloseEvent
FlinkSourceReader	start	ReaderOpenEvent
FlinkSourceReader	close	ReaderCloseEvent

2. Enumerator-related Classes

Class Name	Method	Introduced Event
SourceSplitEnumeratorTask	stateProcess	EnumeratorOpenEvent
SourceSplitEnumeratorTask	close	EnumeratorCloseEvent
CoordinatedSource	open	EnumeratorOpenEvent
CoordinatedSource	close	EnumeratorCloseEvent
ParallelSource	open	EnumeratorOpenEvent
ParallelSource	close	EnumeratorCloseEvent
FlinkSourceEnumerator	start	EnumeratorOpenEvent
FlinkSourceEnumerator	close	EnumeratorCloseEvent

3. Sink-related Classes

Class Name	Method	Introduced Event
SinkFlowLifeCycle	close	WriterCloseEvent
MultiTableSinkWriter	close	WriterCloseEvent
FlinkSinkWriter	close	WriterCloseEvent
SparkDataWriter	commit	WriterCloseEvent
SeaTunnelSparkDataWriter	commit	WriterCloseEvent

Does this PR introduce any user-facing change?

How was this patch tested?

Check list

• [ ] If any new Jar binary package adding in your PR, please add License Notice according New License Guide
• [ ] If necessary, please update the documentation to describe the new feature. https://github.com/apache/seatunnel/tree/dev/docs
• [ ] If you are contributing the connector code, please check that the following files are updated:
  1. Update plugin-mapping.properties and add new connector information in it
  2. Update the pom file of seatunnel-dist
  3. Add ci label in label-scope-conf
  4. Add e2e testcase in seatunnel-e2e
  5. Update connector plugin_config
• [ ] Update the release-note.