[Improve][Connector-V2] Improve schema evolution on column insert after for mysql-jdbc

[jw-itq]

Improve #8015

Purpose of this pull request

Does this PR introduce any user-facing change?

How was this patch tested?

Check list

• [x] If any new Jar binary package adding in your PR, please add License Notice according New License Guide
• [x] If necessary, please update the documentation to describe the new feature. https://github.com/apache/seatunnel/tree/dev/docs
• [x] If you are contributing the connector code, please check that the following files are updated:
  1. Update plugin-mapping.properties and add new connector information in it
  2. Update the pom file of seatunnel-dist
  3. Add ci label in label-scope-conf
  4. Add e2e testcase in seatunnel-e2e
  5. Update connector plugin_config
• [x] Update the release-note.

[jw-itq]

Thanks @jw-itq ! Could you add a test case? Yes, I am writing

[dailai]

@hailin0 Please have a look. Should this pr need to adapt the new api which is introduced by the pr #7463.

[hailin0]

@jw-itq Thanks, please rebase dev branch

cc @dailai