[Improve][POM] Bump the version of maven-shade-plugin to 3.4.1

[dailai]

Purpose of this pull request

I defined a SPI services in paimon connetor.

The SPI services with a same filepath in the pom dependency that overwrite the SPI services file. Even though I configured the transformer in the shade plugin.

I found this is a bug in the shade plugin, which was fixed in version 3.4.1.

link: https://github.com/apache/maven-shade-plugin/releases/tag/maven-shade-plugin-3.4.1

When I upgrade the maven-shade plugin, It's all right.

Does this PR introduce any user-facing change?

How was this patch tested?

Check list

• [ ] If any new Jar binary package adding in your PR, please add License Notice according New License Guide
• [ ] If necessary, please update the documentation to describe the new feature. https://github.com/apache/seatunnel/tree/dev/docs
• [ ] If you are contributing the connector code, please check that the following files are updated:
  1. Update plugin-mapping.properties and add new connector information in it
  2. Update the pom file of seatunnel-dist
  3. Add ci label in label-scope-conf
  4. Add e2e testcase in seatunnel-e2e
  5. Update connector plugin_config
• [ ] Update the release-note.