Added more info on security, RDS, and ALLOWED_HOST configs

brief description of changes

Updates AWS deployment documentation to discuss networking and security groups.

issues addressed

Provides additional information about how to use security groups to grant the minimal needed permissions between different nodes in a distributed architecture. Also discusses some useful settings.

further comments

We may want to add more information about connecting to RDS instances in future updates

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