Add support for debugging on Java 9+ platforms

[oliversaggau]

• should fix https://github.com/asebak/embeddedlinux-jvmdebugger-intellij/issues/82 and https://github.com/asebak/embeddedlinux-jvmdebugger-intellij/issues/80
• by using hostname instead of * this should be compatible with all Java versions

[asebak]

Sorry I never saw this, will look into it once I get the chance.

[lennertcc]

Running into the same, hope you find some time!

[asebak]

Thanks for the help now tested in verified it's working but there's still a few things needed to be fixed for the newer versions of intellij