Improve fix exception throwing for MSSQL execute statement

[mvorisek]

replace #993

docs: https://learn.microsoft.com/en-us/sql/odbc/reference/develop-app/multiple-results and https://learn.microsoft.com/en-us/sql/connect/jdbc/parsing-the-results#exceptions

upstream issue PHP driver: https://github.com/microsoft/msphpsql/issues/1387

upstream issue ODBC: https://github.com/microsoft/mssql-jdbc/issues/995

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other lib fixes:

• https://github.com/microsoft/mssql-jdbc/pull/664 and https://github.com/microsoft/mssql-jdbc/pull/1003
• https://github.com/dbt-msft/dbt-sqlserver/pull/140