(@aws-cdk/aws-s3): Add validation for lifecycleRules

Describe the bug

When a bucket is initialised without either transitionDate or transitionAfter being set in lifecycleRules, the stack will build successfully but fail to deploy. Similarly, if both transitionDate and transitionAfter are set, it will fail to deploy as well.

Expected Behavior

Should throw an error when both transitionDate and transitionAfter are undefined, or both are defined.

Current Behavior

Build successfully, and got errors below during deployment

SampleBucket: creating CloudFormation changeset...
1:56:12 pm | CREATE_FAILED        | AWS::S3::Bucket    | sampleBucket
Exactly one of TransitionDate and TransitionInDays must be specified

 ❌  SampleBucket failed: Error: The stack named sampleBucket failed creation, it may need to be manually deleted from the AWS console: ROLLBACK_COMPLETE: Exactly one of TransitionDate and TransitionInDays must be specified
    at prepareAndExecuteChangeSet (/Users/cdk/sample/node_modules/aws-cdk/lib/api/deploy-stack.ts:386:13)
    at processTicksAndRejections (node:internal/process/task_queues:96:5)
    at deployStack2 (/Users/cdk/sample/node_modules/aws-cdk/lib/cdk-toolkit.ts:240:24)
    at /Users/cdk/sample/node_modules/aws-cdk/lib/deploy.ts:39:11
    at run (/Users/cdk/sample/node_modules/p-queue/dist/index.js:163:29)

 ❌ Deployment failed: Error: Stack Deployments Failed: Error: The stack named sampleBucket failed creation, it may need to be manually deleted from the AWS console: ROLLBACK_COMPLETE: Exactly one of TransitionDate and TransitionInDays must be specified
    at deployStacks (/Users/cdk/sample/node_modules/aws-cdk/lib/deploy.ts:61:11)
    at processTicksAndRejections (node:internal/process/task_queues:96:5)
    at CdkToolkit.deploy (/Users/cdk/sample/node_modules/aws-cdk/lib/cdk-toolkit.ts:312:7)
    at initCommandLine (/Users/cdk/sample/node_modules/aws-cdk/lib/cli.ts:349:12)

Stack Deployments Failed: Error: The stack named sampleBucket failed creation, it may need to be manually deleted from the AWS console: ROLLBACK_COMPLETE: Exactly one of TransitionDate and TransitionInDays must be specified

Reproduction Steps

Deploy the stack below

import { Stack, StackProps, aws_s3 as s3 } from "aws-cdk-lib";
import { Construct } from "constructs";

export class TestStack extends Stack {
  bucket: s3.Bucket;

  constructor(scope: Construct, id: string, props: StackProps) {
    super(scope, id, props);

    this.bucket = new s3.Bucket(this, "test-s3-bucket", {
      lifecycleRules: [
        {
          transitions: [{ storageClass: s3.StorageClass.GLACIER }],
        },
      ],
    });
  }
}

Possible Solution

Add validation to cdk

Additional Information/Context

No response

CDK CLI Version

2.41.0

Framework Version

2.41.0

Node.js Version

16.13.1

OS

Linux

Language

Typescript

Language Version

TypeScript(4.7.4)

Other information

No response

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