Fixes regarding the apple store submission issue

[alibeyram]

In order to fix apple-store-issue we need to compile binary files into dynamic libraries (.dylibs instead of .so) Also needed to modify dynload_shlib.c so python can read .dylib Moreover, I have an issue compiling/patching test_source_encoding.py so I removed that from the patch. Also, I noticed that patch does not exist in the python3.11

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[freakboy3742]

Thanks for this contribution - I've incorporated the spirit of most of this into #187, but that PR makes most of the changes closer to the CPython core rather than as site modifications or Makefile overrides.