benjaffe / chrome-okc-plugin

OkCupid Poly Plugin
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Support for asexual-friendly / low sex drive? #105

Closed blacklodge closed 9 years ago

blacklodge commented 9 years ago

Hiyo!

I've noticed there are categories to prioritize high sex drive, but how about support for asexuals / gray aces? I have the love over sex category selected as well as the "high sex drive", but in the latter's case I'm using it to determine the opposite.

I feel like "asexual-friendly" and "low sex drive" (esp since "high sex drive" exists) are two categories missing as kind of an oversight.

If there's anything I can do to clarify, or look up questions that might apply I'd be glad to do it, just not sure what my involvement can be from here :) Otherwise, awesome plugin, streamlines a lot of other things that I tend to have to dig into the questions for.

AstraLuma commented 9 years ago

Can you submit a suggestion for a category name, and the questions that apply? To get the question ids (which I need to add the questions to the plugin), right-click on the question text, click Inspect Element, and look around near the highlighted line for text like "qtext_28831". The number is the question ID, and with that, I can add the questions to the category.

For examples as to how this works, see Issue #100.

blacklodge commented 9 years ago

Hey, thanks for the speedy reply! Categories could be called "Low Sex Drive" and "Asexual-Open" based on current categories of "high sex drive" and "bi-open". I've marked what answers might correspond with these questions.


Low Sex Drive Questions: id=“qtext_63114" How do you think your sex drive compares to what is typical for other people of your age and gender? My sex drive is higher than average. My sex drive is about average. My sex drive is below average. X I'm insatiable.

id="qtext_12605" Once you're intimate, how often would you and your significant other have sex? Every day About every other day Once or twice a week X A few times a month or less X

id="qtext_86417" How long can you go without sexual release? A day or less More than a day, less than a week. More than a week. X I have never had sexual release. X


Asexual-friendly (or Asexual-Open) could highlight these questions:

id=“qtext_60852" Do you believe that regular sex is necessary in maintaining a healthy relationship? Yes No X

id="qtext_18682" Do you think physical love is necessary for happiness in life? Yes No X

id="qtext_80929" Would you consider dating someone who has no interest in sex and experiences no sexual attraction to either gender if they were otherwise perfect? Yes X No


If I've missed any/ anyone has a trouble with them that sees this please correct/add!

Thanks again for your follow up :)

benjaffe commented 9 years ago

@astronouth7303 , thanks for jumping on this!

@blacklodge , Wonderful ideas, and thank you for the question ids! I'll get those into the plugin in the next few days!

benjaffe commented 9 years ago

...meaning now! I just published, and it'll be live within an hour. Thank you again for your participation. It's what makes this plugin better and better for everyone! :)