Run observers before hooks for `on_replace` and `on_remove`

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Objective

• Fixes #16498

Solution

• Trivially swaps ordering of hooks and observers for all call sites where they are triggered for on_replace or on_remove

Testing

• Just CI

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Migration Guide

The order of hooks and observers for on_replace and on_remove has been swapped. Observers are now run before hooks. This is a more natural ordering where the removal ordering is inverted compared to the insertion ordering.

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The fix pull runs now hooks after observers, but observers are run in the same order as on insertion, not in reverse order. Flecs says observer ordering is undefined, and I also think that having undefined ordering is better than saying observers are called in insertion order (or reverse insertion order). So I believe it's fine that the observers are not run in reverse order by this pull.

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If guaranteed observer ordering is added (in a separate pull), then that pull should also add functionality to call the observers in reverse order, and this reverse order should be used for OnReplace and OnRemove observers.