fix(common): Fix probes intermittently choosing the wrong service

[gabe565]

Description of the change

While upgrading from v2 to v3, I noticed probes will randomly choose service ports that use a different controller. This PR makes it so that services are only chosen for probes if they target the current controller.

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Fixed

Fixes bjw-s.common.lib.service.primaryForController choosing services that don't match the current controller.

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Applicable issues

• fixes #289

Additional information

Checklist

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