Update nodemailer to fix CI backend vulnerability failures

[nickviola]

Resolves #2501 and fixes failed nodemailer backend vulnerabilty check in CI.

🗣 Description

Ran npm audit in backend for nodemailer package.

💭 Motivation and context

Failed CI checks.

🧪 Testing

Backend CI pipeline checks should all run sucessfully.

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• [x] This PR has an informative and human-readable title.
• [x] Changes are limited to a single goal - eschew scope creep!
• [x] All future TODOs are captured in issues, which are referenced in code comments.
• [x] All relevant type-of-change labels have been added.
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• [x] These code changes follow cisagov code standards.
• [x] All relevant repo and/or project documentation has been updated to reflect the changes in this PR.
• [x] Tests have been added and/or modified to cover the changes in this PR.
• [x] All new and existing tests pass.