Closed coatk1 closed 2 years ago
Essentialism, pg(s): 8, 22, 24, 111, 125, 229, 233, 242, 260-262
Almost everything is noise, only a few things are essential.
Make the wisest possible investment of time and energy to operate at the highest point of contribution by doing what is essential.
Focus energy on a few things to achieve more, rather than multiple things to achieve less.
Essence:
Have the courage to live true to yourself/ be authentic.
Explore:
Eliminate:
Walk away and don't conform.
Use essential intent (concrete, inspirational, meaningful, and memorable statement of purpose) to give us clarity and a proposed deadline (How will we know when we're done?).
Have courage, compassion, and clarity (of your purpose) to both gracefully say and demonstrate (no without saying no) a clear no. This will give you more respect despite current unpopularity.
Separate no from the relationship of the individual.
Focus on trade-offs (What are we giving up when we say yes) and remember someone is always selling you something (idea, opinion, exchange for time, etc.)
Ways to say "No":
Have the courage to admit your mistakes/ cut your losses (regardless if it's a waste) and get a second neutral opinion (when trying to force something) in order to uncommit, regardless of cost or perceived value.
If you didn't have it, what would you sacrifice to obtain it?
Use zero-based budgeting (allocate all time, energy, and resources) to defeat the status quo bias.
Pause and think before making a commitment.
Use reverse pilot (removing activities) to face fear of missing out or disappointment of others.
Use editing to subtract/ cut out irrelevant options as well as condensing and correcting (quality check with our purpose) our activities. Also have discipline to show restraint of not removing.
Find and set boundaries (saying no in advance), giving you and others the ability to be free/ liberated and responsible. Create social contracts to set boundaries and find what you and another individual want to achieve.
Execute:
Create a system to remove obstacles (make it easy).
Practice extreme and early preparation, and add 50% to your time estimate as a buffer for unexpected events.
Use scenario planning for project/ task buffers:
Use essential intent to discover your desired outcome and remove constraints/ "slowest hiker"/ obstacles (by priority) to improve progress and maximize results.
If your constraint is another person, ask them what are their obstacles from achieving X and how can you help remove them.
Start small, visually (if possible) reward progress/ achievement (this builds momentum) and celebrate wins; to make doing essential activities effortless (make it easy and make it satisfying). This also allows us to enjoy and find satisfaction in the process.
Focus on the minimal viable progress (What is the smallest amount of progress that will be useful and valuable to get the essential task done?).
Perform the minimal valuable preparation (What is the minimal amount I could do right now to prepare?).
Start with small (4 mins) repetitions (with the help of a cue) to design a routine/ habit that enshrines essential tasks as the default position (autopilot).
Focus on the hardest thing first and tackle routines one at a time.
Mix up routines (weekly themes) to combat against boredom.
Take a moment to pause (slow down time), meditate, and refresh (being re-centered), in order to be focused in and enjoy the moment (What is important right now?)/ experiencing kairos.
Prioritize a list of things to get done and cross out anything that isn't important right now, at that present moment in time. Concentrate on one task at a time.
Take notes on ideas that may be useful in the future, to free up your mental energy.
Allow the essence (choice, elimination, trade-offs) of essentialism to enter your heart and mind, and to embrace the identity of being an essentialist (living a life of meaning and purpose, no regrets). Once essentialism is at your core, every decision you make will have cumulative effects on expanding your inner essentialist.
The essentialist path is one of clarity, control, and joy. Ask what is essential and eliminate everything else.
Knowing that our time on earth is short, gives us courage to make the right decisions and to be selective with our time.
Systems are for daily habits. Essentialism is for work or business tasks.
Essentialism: The Disciplined Pursuit of Less