Use SDAM for MongoBetween( v2 )

[d2army]

The idea here is to enable SDAM(Server Discovery And Monitoring) on the MongoBetween side so it can report back metrics and logs on what it observes about server and topology changes on the Atlas side.

This will be helpful for understanding the state of the cluster from MongoBetween's perspective during times of connectivity issues.

SDAM References:

https://www.alexbevi.com/blog/2022/05/15/mongodb-driver-monitoring/#go

https://github.com/mongodb/specifications/blob/a9096ad069e8af0f5973c9d0ca75da57e4c63616/source/server-discovery-and-monitoring/server-discovery-and-monitoring-monitoring.rst#events

[cb-heimdall]

Review Error for cj-cb @ 2023-02-11 01:13:23 UTC User must have write permissions to review

[cb-heimdall]

Review Error for jeffsaremi @ 2023-02-11 04:23:19 UTC User must have write permissions to review

[taganaka]

@mdehoog Could you please have a look at Circle CI integration? Thanks mate!