Depend on upstream ruamel.yaml instead of unmaintained ruamel_yaml

[mbargull]

Checklist

• [x] Used a personal fork of the feedstock to propose changes
• [x] Bumped the build number (if the version is unchanged)
• [x] Reset the build number to 0 (if the version changed)
• [x] Re-rendered with the latest conda-smithy (Use the phrase code>@<space/conda-forge-admin, please rerender in a comment in this PR for automated rerendering)
• [ ] Ensured the license file is being packaged.

I'm currently looking at what packages on conda-forge have a dependency on the non-maintained ruamel_yaml package.

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[jaimergp]

@mbargull This LGTM. Should we try to land it?