Relax CUDA 12 check in cross-compilation (for 3.x)

[jakirkham]

Same as PR ( https://github.com/conda-forge/conda-forge-ci-setup-feedstock/pull/302 ) backported to the 3.x branch.

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• [x] Used a personal fork of the feedstock to propose changes
• [ ] Bumped the build number (if the version is unchanged)
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• [x] Re-rendered with the latest conda-smithy (Use the phrase code>@<space/conda-forge-admin, please rerender in a comment in this PR for automated rerendering)
• [x] Ensured the license file is being packaged.

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