Patch Makefile and build Macos dylib

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Checklist

• [x] Used a personal fork of the feedstock to propose changes
• [x] Bumped the build number (if the version is unchanged)
• [ ] Reset the build number to 0 (if the version changed)
• [x] Re-rendered with the latest conda-smithy (Use the phrase code>@<space/conda-forge-admin, please rerender in a comment in this PR for automated rerendering)
• [x] Ensured the license file is being packaged.

Removes most of the Makefile-altering sed commands Uses the conda metadata patch application process as defined in the meta.yaml file Adds a .dylib target for macosx builds Uses the cross-compiler SDK flags.

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I just wanted to let you know that I linted all conda-recipes in your PR (recipe) and found it was in an excellent condition.