Add missing numpy host dependency and constrain pybind11 < 2.12.0 for ABI Windows problem

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Something that I overlooked when packaging Python bindings to C++ libraries that wrap eigen vector or matrices via the pybind/eigen.h header is that those bindings depends on numpy ABI (via the include sequence pybind/eigen.h --> pybind/eigen/matrix.h --> pybind/numpy.h).

We never noticed this as for a long time numpy 1 was just ABI stable, but now that numpy 2 came out, we are seeing problems (see segfaults in https://github.com/conda-forge/bipedal-locomotion-framework-feedstock/pull/69 and https://github.com/conda-forge/bipedal-locomotion-framework-feedstock/pull/72).

For manifpy and bipedal-locomotion-framework python users: in a nutshell if we see something strange (i.e. segfaults) in conda environments with old versions of manifpy and bipedal-locomotion-framework, a easy workaround is just to pin numpy<2. A cleaner solution would be to prepare a repodata patch (see https://github.com/conda-forge/conda-forge-repodata-patches-feedstock), but as that takes time to do it properly I would prefer to avoid it unless we actually see the need to do it.

The pybind11 constrain is instead necessary for https://github.com/conda-forge/pybind11-feedstock/pull/94#issuecomment-2033804227 .

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