Reorganise build scripts

[Anthchirp]

• copy all rabbitmq files, not just selected directories
• add wrapper file directly instead of patching it in
• update the second patch file

needed to update to >=3.8.6

This PR is a smaller chunk of #24

Checklist

• [x] Used a personal fork of the feedstock to propose changes
• [x] Bumped the build number (if the version is unchanged)
• [x] Re-rendered with the latest conda-smithy (Use the phrase code>@<space/conda-forge-admin, please rerender in a comment in this PR for automated rerendering)
• [x] Ensured the license file is being packaged.

[conda-forge-linter]

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I just wanted to let you know that I linted all conda-recipes in your PR (recipe) and found it was in an excellent condition.

[Anthchirp]

@conda-forge-admin, please rerender

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