Fixes for librdkit-dev and rdkit-postgresql

[skearnes]

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Resolves #165

• Updates rdkit-postgresql to avoid a symbolic link on OSX (rename to dylib instead)
• Adds rdkit-dev as an alias for librdkit-dev + rdkit (for backward compatibility with the old rdkit-dev package; see https://github.com/conda-forge/rdkit-feedstock/issues/167#issuecomment-2250376432)

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[skearnes]

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[skearnes]

@jaimergp the reason renaming didn't work before is because I was trying to do it before the install 🤦

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[skearnes]

@greglandrum @jaimergp what's the convention now that I'm an owner? I assume I should still wait for a review?