V3.4.0 and less upstream patching

[timostrunk]

Checklist

• [x] Used a personal fork of the feedstock to propose changes
• [x] Bumped the build number (if the version is unchanged)
• [x] Reset the build number to 0 (if the version changed)
• [x] Re-rendered with the latest conda-smithy (Use the phrase code>@<space/conda-forge-admin, please rerender in a comment in this PR for automated rerendering)
• [x] Ensured the license file is being packaged.

This is PR #151 updated with version 3.4.0. Sorry for all the PRs, I just wanted to keep the old discussions open and make a "clean" PR.

Summary:

• Updated to 3.4.0 and removed dependencies to oscrypto and pycryptodomex
• Moved from arrow_cpp to libarrow
• Removed patch 0002, because we only build against arrow >= 10
• Slimmed down patch 0001, because arrow >= 10 can always be built with c++17 support

Closes:

• Resolves #151
• Resolves #150
• Resolves #152
• Resolves #149
• Resolves #148
• Resolves #141

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I just wanted to let you know that I linted all conda-recipes in your PR (recipe) and found it was in an excellent condition.

[timostrunk]

@xhochy I addressed the comments in the other PR here, could you please review again?