chore(deps): update build/, up, and terraform versions

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Description of your changes

Updates build/ to latest (used by AWS and Linode providers), up build tool, and terraform version to 1.5.5

Updates golangci-lint config files.

Fixes #

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How has this code been tested

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CI passed in this build but once merged we are seeing flakes from golangci-lint:

level=error msg="Timeout exceeded: try increasing it by passing --timeout option"