[Cluster.RDS] Add `ClusterParameterGroup` and `ParameterGroup` Selectors

[ytsarev]

Description of your changes

• Add dbClusterParameterGroupNameSelector
• Add dbInstanceParameterGroupNameSelector
• Extend uptest example
• Include UP_VERSION updated to be able to build on recent docker versions

I have:

• [x] Read and followed Crossplane's [contribution process].
• [x] Run make reviewable to ensure this PR is ready for review.
• [ ] Added backport release-x.y labels to auto-backport this PR if necessary.

How has this code been tested

make e2e UPTEST_EXAMPLE_LIST=examples/rds/v1beta1/cluster.yaml
...
--- PASS: kuttl (155.21s)
    --- PASS: kuttl/harness (0.00s)
        --- PASS: kuttl/harness/case (154.42s)
PASS
22:37:06 [ OK ] running automated tests

Checked that parameter groups are properly selected in cluster spec

spec:
  deletionPolicy: Delete
  forProvider:
    allocatedStorage: 1
    autoGeneratePassword: true
    availabilityZones:
    - us-west-1b
    - us-west-1c
    backupRetentionPeriod: 1
    dbClusterParameterGroupName: example-ci-cluster
    dbClusterParameterGroupNameRef:
      name: example-ci-cluster
    dbClusterParameterGroupNameSelector:
      matchLabels:
        testing.upbound.io/example-name: example-ci-cluster
    dbInstanceParameterGroupName: example-parametergroup-ci-cluster-instance
    dbInstanceParameterGroupNameRef:
      name: example-parametergroup-ci-cluster-instance
    dbInstanceParameterGroupNameSelector:
      matchLabels:
        testing.upbound.io/example-name: example-ci-cluster-instance

Uptest run: https://github.com/crossplane-contrib/provider-upjet-aws/actions/runs/8812738711

[ytsarev]

/test-examples="examples/rds/v1beta1/cluster.yaml"

[jeanduplessis]

/test-examples="examples/rds/v1beta1/cluster.yaml"