chore: use dashmap replace hashmap

[zhyass]

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Summary

Use DashMap replace the Mutex<HashMap> and RwLock<HashMap> to make the code more clearly.

DashMap is an implementation of a concurrent associative array/hashmap in Rust.

Tests

• [ ] Unit Test
• [ ] Logic Test
• [ ] Benchmark Test
• [x] No Test - Explain why

Type of change

• [ ] Bug Fix (non-breaking change which fixes an issue)
• [ ] New Feature (non-breaking change which adds functionality)
• [ ] Breaking Change (fix or feature that could cause existing functionality not to work as expected)
• [ ] Documentation Update
• [ ] Refactoring
• [ ] Performance Improvement
• [x] Other (please describe):

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ClickBench Report

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• load: https://benchmark.databend.com/clickbench/pr/16426/10776140415/load.html
• tpch: https://benchmark.databend.com/clickbench/pr/16426/10776140415/tpch.html

[zhang2014]

Recommended to replace only the hashmap in the lock manager.