chore(query): reduce unsafe codes in kernels

[sundy-li]

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Summary

1. reduce unsafe codes in FilterVisitor and Take/Concat kernels
2. introduce IterationStrategy in FilterVisitor based on https://dl.acm.org/doi/abs/10.1145/3465998.3466009

Performance did not improve, we need to re benchmark it after StringView is introduced.

Tests

• [x] Unit Test
• [ ] Logic Test
• [ ] Benchmark Test
• [ ] No Test - Explain why

Type of change

• [ ] Bug Fix (non-breaking change which fixes an issue)
• [ ] New Feature (non-breaking change which adds functionality)
• [ ] Breaking Change (fix or feature that could cause existing functionality not to work as expected)
• [ ] Documentation Update
• [x] Refactoring
• [ ] Performance Improvement
• [ ] Other (please describe):

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