refactor: optimize query system.tables when query single table

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Summary

1. moved SYSTEM_TABLES_ALLOW_LIST to src/meta/app/src/principal/user_grant.rs. I also refactored the get_visibility_checker function and added a new parameter: ignore_ownership.

2. The purpose of this parameter is to optimize the performance of querying table information from system.tables. When this parameter is set, we can skip listing all ownerships and directly fetch a single ownership object, then perform only one get operation, thus reducing query time. In short, this change aims to improve the efficiency of querying table information from system.tables by avoiding unnecessary operations on the list of ownerships.

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• [ ] New Feature (non-breaking change which adds functionality)
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• [ ] Documentation Update
• [ ] Refactoring
• [x] Performance Improvement
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