Update `spark` to version 3.5.0

[arcaputo3]

• Update TikaFileFormat syntax based on spark 3.5.0 changes
• Upgrade IOUtils to ByteStreams (based on spark 3.5.0 binaryFiles implementation)
• Update scala to version 2.12.15
• Update tika-parsers-standard-package to 2.9.1
• Update maven-shade-plugin to 3.5.1
• Add ServicesResourceTransformer to help Databricks discover tika parsers
• Add tika.parser.ocr.timeout option to allow for longer Tesseract timeouts

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