chore: polish error message NDJSON.

[youngsofun]

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Summary

The origin JSON error format "{} at line {} column {}" is misleading for NDJSON in DB context.

• rm line {}
• rename column {} to pos {}, 1-based to 0 based
• add info for size and next byte

Use test in case of changes of serde_json.

• Fixes #[Link the issue here]

Tests

• [ ] Unit Test
• [x] Logic Test
• [ ] Benchmark Test
• [ ] No Test - Explain why

Type of change

• [ ] Bug Fix (non-breaking change which fixes an issue)
• [ ] New Feature (non-breaking change which adds functionality)
• [ ] Breaking Change (fix or feature that could cause existing functionality not to work as expected)
• [ ] Documentation Update
• [x] Refactoring
• [ ] Performance Improvement
• [ ] Other (please describe):

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