feat(ingest): handle mssql casing issues in lineage

[hsheth2]

MSSQL is case insensitive but case preserving. To handle this, we treat identifiers as case insensitive.

Requires that convert_urns_to_lowercase: true is set during ingestion. Closes #11322.

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