[Bug] Fix constraints enforcement rollover test

[mikealfare]

resolves #1009

Problem

This test started failing. We skipped it to release and need to address the failure. We suspect there was a change with delta tables in Databricks that we're not properly accounting for.

Solution

• unskip the test
• update expected error messages to allow for ubuntu and macos versions

Checklist

• [x] I have read the contributing guide and understand what's expected of me
• [x] I have run this code in development and it appears to resolve the stated issue
• [x] This PR includes tests, or tests are not required/relevant for this PR
• [x] This PR has no interface changes (e.g. macros, cli, logs, json artifacts, config files, adapter interface, etc) or this PR has already received feedback and approval from Product or DX

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