[Performance][WIP] Use boolean mask

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Description

Switch to use boolean mask, which helps reduce the memory consumption of the models.

Checklist

Essentials

• [x] PR's title starts with a category (e.g. [BUGFIX], [MODEL], [TUTORIAL], [FEATURE], [DOC], etc)
• [x] Changes are complete (i.e. I finished coding on this PR)
• [x] All changes have test coverage
• [x] Code is well-documented

cc @dmlc/gluon-nlp-team

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The documentation website for preview: http://gluon-nlp-staging.s3-accelerate.dualstack.amazonaws.com/PR1402/boolean_mask/index.html