Inconsistent default states for start/stop command

[afscrome]

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Describe the bug

In the below example example, the starting container shows the "Start" action, yet the waiting executable shows the play icon.

Expected Behavior

Both are disabled so don't do anything, however I'd expect them to have a consistent initial state (either both should have a disabled play button, or both a disabled stop button)

Steps To Reproduce

(Note, this repo may stop working once #5810 is fixed)

var sql = builder.AddSqlServer("sql")
    .WithLifetime(ContainerLifetime.Persistent);

var migrator = builder.AddExecutable("migrator", "pwsh", ".",
    "-NoProfile",
    "-NoLogo",
    "-NonInteractive",
    "-Command",
    "Write-Host 'Starting Migration'; Start-Sleep -Seconds 1; Write-Host 'Done'")
    .WaitFor(sql);

var db = sql.AddDatabase("mydb")
    .WaitFor(migrator);

Exceptions (if any)

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.NET Version info

    <PackageReference Include="Aspire.Hosting.AppHost" Version="9.0.0-preview.4.24470.1" />
    <PackageReference Include="Aspire.Hosting.PostgreSQL" Version="9.0.0-preview.4.24470.1" />
    <PackageReference Include="Aspire.Hosting.Redis" Version="9.0.0-preview.4.24470.1" />
    <PackageReference Include="Aspire.Hosting.SqlServer" Version="9.0.0-preview.4.24470.1" />

.NET SDK:
 Version:           9.0.100-rc.1.24452.12
 Commit:            81a714c6d3
 Workload version:  9.0.100-manifests.c7c7028a
 MSBuild version:   17.12.0-preview-24422-09+d17ec720d

Runtime Environment:
 OS Name:     Windows
 OS Version:  10.0.22631
 OS Platform: Windows
 RID:         win-x64
 Base Path:   C:\Program Files\dotnet\sdk\9.0.100-rc.1.24452.12\

.NET workloads installed:
Configured to use loose manifests when installing new manifests.
 [aspire]
   Installation Source: VS 17.11.35312.102
   Manifest Version:    9.0.0-preview.4.24454.4/8.0.100
   Manifest Path:       C:\Program Files\dotnet\sdk-manifests\8.0.100\microsoft.net.sdk.aspire\9.0.0-preview.4.24454.4\WorkloadManifest.json
   Install Type:        FileBased

Host:
  Version:      9.0.0-rc.1.24431.7
  Architecture: x64
  Commit:       static

.NET SDKs installed:
  8.0.400 [C:\Program Files\dotnet\sdk]
  8.0.401 [C:\Program Files\dotnet\sdk]
  9.0.100-rc.1.24452.12 [C:\Program Files\dotnet\sdk]

.NET runtimes installed:
  Microsoft.AspNetCore.App 8.0.8 [C:\Program Files\dotnet\shared\Microsoft.AspNetCore.App]
  Microsoft.AspNetCore.App 9.0.0-rc.1.24452.1 [C:\Program Files\dotnet\shared\Microsoft.AspNetCore.App]
  Microsoft.NETCore.App 8.0.8 [C:\Program Files\dotnet\shared\Microsoft.NETCore.App]
  Microsoft.NETCore.App 9.0.0-rc.1.24431.7 [C:\Program Files\dotnet\shared\Microsoft.NETCore.App]
  Microsoft.WindowsDesktop.App 8.0.8 [C:\Program Files\dotnet\shared\Microsoft.WindowsDesktop.App]
  Microsoft.WindowsDesktop.App 9.0.0-rc.1.24452.1 [C:\Program Files\dotnet\shared\Microsoft.WindowsDesktop.App]

Other architectures found:
  x86   [C:\Program Files (x86)\dotnet]
    registered at [HKLM\SOFTWARE\dotnet\Setup\InstalledVersions\x86\InstallLocation]

Environment variables:
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cc @JamesNK