fixed reload for remote feature and added option to the electron window to add change url on reload

[jonah-iden]

What it does

This fixes the remote feature when connecting current window to remote instance. Had to add the option for the electron window reload to add a new url.

Fixes #13888

How to test

Best tested with dev containers. Simple file like this should be enough.

{
    "image": "mcr.microsoft.com/devcontainers/typescript-node:0-18",
    "forwardPorts": [3000]
}

"Reopen in Container" command should now again work as expected

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