Use warnings.warn for kwargs check in to_xarray

[sandorkertesz]

Fixes #379

• removed warnings when non-default kwargs used
• use warnings.warn() when forced kwargs specified with non-default values

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Project coverage is 89.63%. Comparing base (e873e96) to head (de3f5dd).

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