buildkite: support version 21 for opentelemetry

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What does this PR do?

Use java 21. Fixes https://github.com/open-telemetry/opentelemetry-java-instrumentation/issues/11267

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Checklist

• [ ] This is an enhancement of existing features, or a new feature in existing plugins
  • [ ] I have updated CHANGELOG.asciidoc
  • [ ] I have added tests that prove my fix is effective or that my feature works
  • [ ] Added an API method or config option? Document in which version this will be introduced
  • [ ] I have made corresponding changes to the documentation
• [ ] This is a bugfix
  • [ ] I have updated CHANGELOG.asciidoc
  • [ ] I have added tests that would fail without this fix
• [ ] This is a new plugin
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  • [ ] My code follows the style guidelines of this project
  • [ ] I have made corresponding changes to the documentation
  • [ ] I have added tests that prove my fix is effective or that my feature works
  • [ ] New and existing unit tests pass locally with my changes
  • [ ] I have updated supported-technologies.asciidoc
  • [ ] Added an API method or config option? Document in which version this will be introduced
  • [ ] Added an instrumentation plugin? Describe how you made sure that old, non-supported versions are not instrumented by accident.
• [ ] This is something else
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@jackshirazi , IIRC, you said we cannot use 21 at the moment; if that's the case, this should wait for a final decision.