github-action: run buildkite action with GH secrets and slack notifications

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Use GitHub secrets to run the Buildkite release/snapshot and notify status in Slack.

No more Vault secrets access.

There is a pending task to replace the GitHub token user.

Test

I created a feature branch called test/buildkite-tokens and ran:

• https://github.com/elastic/elastic-otel-java/actions/runs/9365639057