fix: update more api under //sql for 3.26 (2-0-x)

[ckerr]

Description of Change

This is a backport PR similar to the 3-0-x and 3-0-x PRs https://github.com/electron/libchromiumcontent/pull/736 and https://github.com/electron/libchromiumcontent/pull/737 -- here, a followup to https://github.com/electron/libchromiumcontent/pull/733

One difference: the upstream patch to remove auto-vacuum at https://chromium-review.googlesource.com/c/chromium/src/+/1362222 was problematic to backport to electron-2-0-x, and its PR description says "no functional changes are expected, because the patch is inert in production", so I've omitted it here.

CC @deepak1556

Checklist

• [x] PR description included and stakeholders cc'd
• [ ] script/update runs without error
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