feat: make deployment strategy configurable

[RobertKeyser]

Description of Changes

Adds a new values.yaml entry useRollingUpdate to determine whether to gracefully roll the pods or whether to terminate and then recreate the pods.

useRollingUpdate == true -> configure the deployment strategies to run rolling updates (graceful, for prod) useRollingUpdate == false -> configure the deployment strategies to replace the existing pods (not graceful for dev)

• Change made to fides deployment and the privacy center deployments.

This was tested with positive results.

Pre-merge Checklist

• [x] All CI Pipelines Succeeded
• [x] Documentation Updated
• [x] Increment Applicable Chart Versions
• [x] Relevant Follow-Up Issues Created