Add proper CMake presets for Linux and Windows

[PatrickKa]

We need

• [x] vcpkg
• [x] dev mode
• [x] C++ standard
• [x] flags
• [x] cppcheck
• [x] clang-tidy
• [x] IWYU
• [x] CI build with warnings and static analyzers
  • [x] Ubuntu, GCC (or Clang with CXX)
  • [x] Windows, MSVC, MSBuild (no static analyzers)
  • [x] Windows, clang-cl (no static analyzers)
• [x] CI coverage Ubuntu
  • [x] Ninja, GCC
  • [x] Ninja, Clang (problem for later)
• [x] CI sanitize Ubuntu, GCC (or Clang with CXX)
  • [x] separate build type, Ninja
  • [x] debug (problem for later)
  • [x] release (problem for later)
• [x] dev build with warnings and static analyzers
  • [x] Ubuntu, GCC
  • [x] Ubuntu, Clang
  • [x] Windows, MSVC (requires custom toolchain)
  • [x] Windows, clang-cl (requires custom toolchain and triplet)
  • [x] Windows, Clang (problem for later or hopefully never)
• [x] dev coverage
  • [x] Ubuntu, Ninja, GCC
  • [x] Windows, Ninja, Clang or clang-cl (problem for later)

We use

• Custom Windows toolchains: https://github.com/MarkSchofield/WindowsToolchain
• Custom Windows + LLVM triplets: https://github.com/Neumann-A/my-vcpkg-triplets