fix(messaging, android): remove deprecated instance ID (iid) dependency

[russellwheatley]

Description

See comment: https://github.com/firebase/firebase-android-sdk/issues/5867#issuecomment-2059478952

Related Issues

closes https://github.com/firebase/flutterfire/issues/12700

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