Live & Staging on the same IP - can't sync

[FCD-Tech]

My Live and Staging instances are both at the same IP address.

Outgoing error: [action name] action is not activated on [remote server on the same ip]

        [response_code] => 200
        [response_message] => OK
        [body] => {"success":false,"data":"\"Update\" action is not activated on http:\/\/fremontcountydems.org\/staging with remote IP 204.44.192.12 (incoming)."}

[FCD-Tech]

The actions are enabled on both sides: 2022-04-04 15:31:11 - Success - Access granted - http://fremontcountydems.org/staging 2022-04-04 15:31:11 - Warning - Ping received for deactivated action "Create" from http://fremontcountydems.org/staging with remote IP 204.44.192.12 (outgoing) 2022-04-04 15:32:05 - Alert - "Create" action is not activated on http://fremontcountydems.org/staging with remote IP 204.44.192.12 (incoming). 2022-04-04 15:32:05 - Info - Response data received from the remote site: Array ( [0] => Array ( [headers] => Array ( [date] => Mon, 04 Apr 2022 15:32:04 GMT [server] => Apache [x-powered-by] => PHP/8.0.17 [vary] => Accept-Encoding,Cookie,User-Agent [upgrade] => h2,h2c [cache-control] => max-age=172800 [expires] => Wed, 06 Apr 2022 15:32:04 GMT [content-encoding] => gzip [content-length] => 142 [content-type] => application/json; charset=UTF-8 )

        [response_code] => 200
        [response_message] => OK
        [body] => {"success":false,"data":"\"Create\" action is not activated on http:\/\/fremontcountydems.org\/staging with remote IP 204.44.192.12 (incoming)."}
    )

)