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[j-rivero]

🎉 New feature

Summary

Part of preparation for https://github.com/gazebosim/gz-cmake/issues/166

Test it

Checklist

• [x] Signed all commits for DCO
• [ ] Added tests
• [ ] Added example and/or tutorial
• [ ] Updated documentation (as needed)
• [ ] Updated migration guide (as needed)
• [ ] Consider updating Python bindings (if the library has them)
• [ ] codecheck passed (See contributing)
• [ ] All tests passed (See test coverage)
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