Adding option to ignore local messages

[caguero]

🎉 New feature

Adds a new option to ignore local messages (when publisher and subscriber share the same node).

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Summary

Test it

Checklist

• [x] Signed all commits for DCO
• [x] Added tests
• [ ] Added example and/or tutorial
• [ ] Updated documentation (as needed)
• [ ] Updated migration guide (as needed)
• [ ] Consider updating Python bindings (if the library has them)
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• [ ] All tests passed (See test coverage)
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